Who We Are

We are a coalition of local churches and community members who are working together to bring hope to vulnerable children by strengthening their families.

We believe that every life is important to God.

There are over 400,000 children in the US in foster care, and over 100,00 are waiting to be adopted.

Each child has a name and a story. Each child is valued by God.

We believe that there are more than enough resources in our community to ensure that all children are cared for and have a place to call home. Where abused and neglected children can be cared for as beloved sons and daughters. Where families can be restored, strengthened, and built up.

We are motivated by the love that our Savior has for us. His sacrifice enables us to love sacrificially.

Statement of Faith

WE BELIEVE the Bible to be the inspired, the only infallible, authoritative Word of God.

WE BELIEVE that there is one God, eternally existent in three persons: Father, Son and Holy Spirit.

WE BELIEVE in the deity and humanity of Christ, in His virgin birth, in His sinless life, in His miracles, in His vicarious and atoning death through His shed blood, in His bodily resurrection, in His ascension to the right hand of the Father, in His present rule as Head of the Church and in His personal return in power and glory.
WE BELIEVE that, for the salvation of lost and sinful man, repentance of sin and faith in Jesus Christ results in regeneration by the Holy Spirit and that Jesus Christ is the only way of salvation.
WE BELIEVE in the present ministry of the Holy Spirit, by whose indwelling the Christian is enabled to live a godly life.
WE BELIEVE in the resurrection of both the saved and the lost, they that are saved unto the resurrection of life and they that are lost unto the resurrection of damnation.
WE BELIEVE in the spiritual unity of believers in our Lord Jesus Christ, with equality across racial, gender, and class differences.
“A father to the fatherless, a defender of widows, is God in his holy dwelling. God sets the lonely in families..”
Psalm 68:5-6a

Leadership

Chris Rainey

Chairman of the Board

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Chris joined FHC because of the growing network of churches and the thought that we can do more for kids if we work together. Chris is a lay pastor at Ogletown Baptist Church. He graduated from seminary in 2021. At his church, he leads in the areas of Missions, their foster care ministry, and teaches a Sunday Bible Study. Chris met Kaci, his wife, in the back of an ambulance. It’s not that weird since he’s a paramedic and she’s an ER nurse. They live in Newark and have been married for over 15 years. Chris and Kaci have been foster parents for over 5 years. They currently have six children. Three of the kids were adopted in 2022. In his spare time, he enjoys going on family hikes with Yoshi, the family’s golden retriever.

Michelle Copple

Vice Chairman of the Board

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A native Delawarean, Michelle grew up knowing she would one day like to work in a field that helps kids flourish. She earned her nursing degree in 1998 and began specializing in pediatrics. Through this work, Michelle met children and families along the way who inspired in her a desire to either become a foster or adoptive parent, or to support families who are on that journey. After marrying her husband, Mark, and parenting two beautiful daughters into their adolescence, she was presented with the opportunity to serve with Family Hope Coalition. While Michelle thought her role would remain a supporter of families who foster or adopt, God led her and her husband to become licensed to foster in 2020. In 2021, they welcomed their first foster child into their home and adopted him in 2022. Michelle enjoys connecting her church and wider community to advocating for every child to have a forever family, through family preservation, foster care, and adoption. She loves the idea that everyone can do something to help, even if you don’t feel called to foster or adopt. Michelle’s favorite thing to do in her free time is spending time with her husband, daughters, son, and son-in-law. 

Paul Greenplate

Treasurer

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Paul joined his wife Cindy on the Board of Family Hope in 2024. Prior to joining the Board, he was involved with Family Hope as a volunteer for various events and activities. He retired in 2022 after a 42-year career in Banking and Finance, serving as the Treasurer of WSFS Bank for many of those years. They have six adult children, the youngest adopted internationally from Cambodia, so adoption has been a part of their family lives through the years. They have 13 grandchildren (and counting) and now spend time traveling to see some of their children and grandchildren who work internationally in missions. Over the years he has been active in church worship ministry and was the Worship Leader at The Barn Vineyard for many years. Paul has other local non-profit Board experience and served as the Treasurer of Good Neighbors Home Repair for seven years.

Sue Toms

Secretary

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Sue and her husband Chad are faithful members of Gospel Life Church. They are also the proud parents of three adult sons. Sue has spent the past 20 years serving as an educator, driven by a lifelong calling to work with children. This year, she transitioned into the role of instructional coach, continuing her passion for supporting both students and teachers. She is also Red Lion Christian Academy’s liaison for A Door of Hope Women’s Crisis Pregnancy Center. After attending the Family Hope Coalition Gala for several years, Sue felt a strong calling to become more deeply involved, and she is honored to now serve as a board member in support of the organization’s mission. When not working, Sue enjoys spending time with family and traveling.

Kevin Koslowsky

Pastoral Advisor

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Kevin is the Senior Pastor of Faith Presbyterian Church in Wilmington, DE where he has served on the pastoral staff since 2002. Kevin earned a PhD in preaching and a ThM in apologetics at Southern Seminary after receiving his MDiv from Westminster Theological Seminary. He delights to make the gospel known through Christ-centered preaching. Along with his passion for sharing the gospel through ministry, Kevin enjoys gathering stories, wandering museums, strumming on the guitar, and playing ice hockey in a recreational league. Kevin attended the initial brainstorming meeting in 2008 that led to the formation of our organization and has served on the board as our pastoral advisor since 2014. Kevin and his wife Laura have three children and their youngest was added to their family by adoption from South Korea in 2010.

Laurie Petit

Board Member

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Laurie joined Family Hope Coalition last August because as an adoptive parent, she was excited to be a part of an organization that worked with churches to support families who foster or adopt (or who were interested in becoming foster or adoptive parents). Laurie is a member of Redeemer Fellowship in Newark, De. and has been married to her husband, Everett, for 42 years. They have 5 children, 2 added to their family by adoption, and 4 grandchildren. Laurie has a background in education. She has homeschooled for over 20 years, and has taught many types of classes, from hearth cooking to ESL. Laurie enjoys hiking, biking, history, reading and travel

Shelley Spedden

Board Member

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Shelley began serving on the board of Family Hope Coalition in Spring 2025, bringing with her over two decades of professional experience in administration and nonprofit development. A dedicated wife and mother of five adult children (plus one “daughter-in-love”), Shelley has long been guided by her Christian faith in both her personal and professional life. With a desire to fulfill their spiritual commitment of compassionate care for the vulnerable, in 2023, she and her husband answered a deep calling to open their home to children in foster care. Shelley and her husband are active members of UNITED Church in Dover, DE, and enjoy spending time being active together.

Cindy Greenplate

Board Member

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Cindy and her husband, Paul, are parents of six adult children, five through birth and one through international adoption and are grandparents of nine children between the ages of newborn to nine years old. Cindy spent 20 years homeschooling her kids. During the homeschooling years, she enjoyed leading the mission program at her church and helping with the youth group that her children were involved in. Leading youth mission trips was a highlight, combining those two interests into some amazing adventures. After the homeschooling years, Cindy worked as an Adoption Social Worker with Bethany Christian Services for 10 years. Since retiring from Bethany, she has spent much of her time traveling to visit her children and grandchildren as they adventure around the globe doing mission work. Cindy was excited to discover Family Hope in 2019 because it has given her the opportunity to continue to do what loved doing as a social worker at Bethany, serving vulnerable children and their families.

Gewn Campbell

Board Member

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Gwen is a retired school administrator with over 40 years of experience in education. In 2022, she earned her Doctor of Education in Educational Leadership. Her passion for education continues in her work with the Association of Christian Schools International (ACSI) where she currently serves on the Northeast Commission and chairs accreditation team visits to Christian schools in the Northeast.

Gwen accepted Christ as her personal Savior at an early age in Sunday School. She and her husband Adam are members of Ogletown Baptist Church where they volunteer on the guest services team. Gwen also serves as a member of the personnel committee and as a volunteer in the children’s ministry.

Gwen and Adam are blessed with 5 adult children and 6 grandchildren. They enjoy traveling, golfing, yard work, and especially being active in the lives of their grandchildren.

Gwen was led to join the board of Family Hope Coalition because of her love for children and her experience in education which helps further our mission. 

Rebecca Rudy

Executive Director

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Rebecca grew up in Delaware before moving to Pennsylvania for college. She is a graduate of Eastern University and earned her MSW at Temple University. Rebecca has a background in working with adjudicated youth in Philadelphia as well as church administration. Her work with Family Hope Coalition blends her passion for helping vulnerable children and seeing local church bodies working together. Rebecca and her husband moved to Delaware in 2018 to help start a church plant, Redeemer Fellowship Church, where they still attend and are active members. Their son Justus joined their family through adoption in 2018. Together, they enjoy hiking, hosting friends at home, and good food.

Kimberly Beckler

Program Director

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Kimberly’s parenting experience began uniquely when she and her husband went from no kids to sharing a home with 10 elementary-age boys overnight! For 5 years, Kimberly and her husband served as dorm parents at a missionary boarding school in Kenya before making Delaware their home in 2020. Their family now consists of 3 biological children and they have been licensed foster parents through the state since 2022. Kimberly is a member at Redeemer Fellowship where she enjoys living life in connection to the body of Christ. She is excited to join the Family Hope Coalition team and support the work of local families being deeply changed by the realities of the Gospel.

Darby Trinsey

Interim Program Director

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Darby and her husband, Michael have been married for 10 years and are the proud parents of two daughters, ages 8 and 5. Their family spent five years serving as foster parents, an experience that continues to shape Darby’s passion for children and families. Although they’re no longer fostering, she remains deeply committed to seeing the church play an active role in supporting the child welfare system and coming alongside foster and adoptive families.

When she’s not working, you’ll probably find her dreaming about her next beach trip, cheering for the Eagles or planning a themed party – some of her favorite ways to relax, celebrate, and bring people together.

Darby is excited to step into this new role and looks forward to getting to know the families, churches, and community partners who make this ministry so special.

Rachel Mallya

Program Coordinator

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Rachel and her husband, Din, are members of Ogletown Baptist Church. She holds a degree in Hospitality Business Management and has spent years working in hotel operations, film production, and finance. Rachel, a Delaware native, has been a member of Ogletown since getting married in 2018 and actively serves in children’s ministry, women’s ministry, and on the worship team. Through her relationships at Ogletown, Rachel has watched how the conviction of caring for vulnerable children has grown her local church body for the better. She is excited to be on the Family Hope team and use her workplace experience to do meaningful Gospel-obedient work and help support the programs of Family Hope Coalition. Din and Rachel have three daughters they welcomed in 2020, 2022, and 2025.

Programs

Refresh Support Group

A time of support, encouragement, and prayer for foster + adoptive moms

Andrew’s Closet

Bringing practical support to foster & kinship families within the first 48 hours and beyond

Contact Us

Family Hope 101

Everyone can play a part in caring for vulnerable children. This course allows participants to hear about the needs and what role you can play.

Family Support

To continue in the good work of caring for vulnerable children, families need to feel supported. To accomplish this, we offer events where families can grow in their love for one another through intentional fun, thoughtful training catered to the unique challenges of foster and adoptive families, and meaningful fellowship with other families in the same boat.

Support Friends

We all can do something, and foster and adoptive families need the support of friends and family. We offer trainings designed to equip friends and ministry workers to support families who are fostering or have adopted children.

Church Advocates

Spread a message of hope, ensuring that there are more than enough loving homes for children in need. Help your church be equipped to care for children from hard places and promote the cause of vulnerable children.

Trauma Competent Care Training

Educating our community to be better equipped to care for children who have experienced complex developmental trauma.